Mortgages After Divorce: Can You Qualify on Your Own?

Sabeena Bubber • June 11, 2026

Going through a divorce is one of the most challenging experiences a person can face. Beyond the emotional toll, the financial untangling can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to the family home. For many, the biggest question is: "Can I qualify for a mortgage on my own?"


Whether you want to buy out your ex-spouse and stay in the matrimonial home, or purchase a new place to start fresh, understanding how lenders view your new financial reality is critical. In a recent episode of The Divorce Circle podcast, host Sabeena Bubber sat down with Luisa Hough, an Accredited Mortgage Professional with Xeva Mortgage, to break down exactly what you need to know about qualifying for a mortgage after divorce.


The Shift from "We" to "Me"

When you are married, lenders look at your combined income and joint debts to determine your borrowing power. After a divorce, you are applying as a single individual. This means you must qualify based solely on your own income, your own credit score, and your portion of any remaining debts.


"The biggest shock for many people is realizing that their borrowing power is significantly reduced when they are qualifying on a single income," explains Luisa Hough. "This is why it's so important to start planning early and understand exactly where you stand financially."


What Lenders Look For: The 3 Pillars of Qualification

To determine if you can qualify for a mortgage on your own, lenders will evaluate three main pillars: Income, Credit, and Down Payment.


1. Income: Proving Stability

Lenders need to see that you have a stable, reliable source of income to cover the mortgage payments. If you are employed full-time, this is relatively straightforward. However, if you are self-employed, or if you rely on child support or spousal support, the rules are more complex.

  • Child and Spousal Support: Lenders will generally accept child and spousal support as income, but they require proof that it is stable and ongoing. You will typically need a finalized, legally binding separation agreement and proof that you have been receiving the payments consistently (usually for at least 3 to 6 months).
  • Self-Employed Income: If you are self-employed, lenders will usually require two years of Notice of Assessments (NOAs) to verify your income.


2. Credit: Establishing Your Own Identity

Your credit score is a crucial factor in qualifying for a mortgage. During a marriage, many couples have joint credit cards and loans. If those accounts were mismanaged, or if your ex-spouse missed payments, your credit score could be negatively affected.

It is essential to establish your own individual credit identity as soon as possible. Open a credit card in your own name, ensure all joint debts are addressed in the separation agreement, and check your credit report for any errors.


3. Down Payment: Sourcing the Funds

If you are buying a new home, you will need a down payment. If you are buying out your ex-spouse, the equity in the home can often be used to facilitate the transaction. This is known as a spousal buyout program, which allows you to refinance the home up to 95% of its value to pay out your ex-partner.


The Importance of a Separation Agreement

Perhaps the most critical piece of advice Luisa Hough offers is this: do not try to finalize a mortgage without a separation agreement.

"Lenders need certainty," she emphasizes. "They need to know exactly what your financial obligations are, who is paying what, who is responsible for which debts, and what the support arrangements are. A finalized separation agreement provides that certainty."

Without a signed separation agreement, most lenders will not approve a mortgage application, as the financial liabilities are still considered unresolved.


Steps to Take Right Now

If you are navigating a divorce and hoping to secure a mortgage, here are the proactive steps you can take today:

  • Build Your Own Credit: Open accounts in your own name and ensure they are paid on time, every time.
  • Understand Your Debts: Work with a financial advisor to create a budget and a debt-reduction plan.
  • Get a Solid Separation Agreement: A well-drafted separation agreement is your best friend when it comes to qualifying for a mortgage.
  • Get Pre-Approved: A mortgage pre-approval will give you the confidence and clarity you need to start your home-buying journey.

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